"Taking it day by day, loving you this way, I'm living inside your love." - Kem, Inside (Kemistry)
You probably want to read this one first if you haven't.
I date White girls. When I was mulling over that post yesterday I knew that would be the spark. One sentence that would focus the conversation. Just about every other word in the piece is a discussion of culture and cultural mixing and what we as individuals think is important, what we think is the ideal life, what we are willing to give up of ourselves in relationships, especially relationships that cross cultural boundaries. But there's that line-- I date White girls --And that became the key note for every commenter that followed.
In the 13 years that I've been a datin' man, I've had 2 serious relationships and 3 casual situations. My first relationship was with a biracial girl. My other long-term relationship was 6 years long and was with an Italian woman. It is what it is. Does it explain who I am as a person or what I'm looking for? I don't know. I've never made a conscious decision about who I will or won't date. I don't close doors like that. I'm open to just about everything.
I defined who I think my ideal mate would be about a year ago. It doesn't deal much with physical appearance because my focus hasn't ever been much on that.
I like funky women. That gives me a pretty wide range of attraction. But if you want to know on a purely physical level what I notice most often? Brown skin, cute haircuts, shorter than me or about my height, my age or younger, curves, cute toes. Ethnically? I notice Asian and Biracial people first.
Want to know who I'm most obsessed with right now? A Black woman whose taller than me and older than me with a cute voice, a bright smile, and a wonderfully ingratiating personality. And cute toes.
She has a boyfriend.
I date White girls.
Is that all you need to know about me or do you want to ask me something else?